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3 attributes your friends should have.

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A friend is someone outside your family whose company you enjoy, and you feel affection towards. Most people, spend time with their friends more than their family. The reason could be because your circle of friends are in the same workplace, church, or school that you are. This means that choosing your friends wisely is very necessary.

It was Thomas J. Watson who said “Don’t make friends who are comfortable to be with. Make friends who will force you to level yourself up.”

This means that in choosing friends, there are certain attributes you should look out for. Some of them are:

1 Those ready to stand by you in your painful days:
There are a lot of days when things will not go as planned. You might be sick, have no money, fail at one thing or another. You need those people who won’t run at the slightest problem you have. You need people that will help share your burden.

Conquerors, you don’t need selfish people, and you don’t also need to be selfish in order to attract the right kind of friends into your life. Be the kind of friend you want to have.

2 Those committed to making you grow:
Having friends who want you to grow is very necessary. They are the ones that constantly motivate you, and are your greatest cheerleaders. They point out when you have erred in love, and try their best to make you correct it. They look for ways they can help you achieve your goals, and visions.

Those kind of friends are achievers themselves, which raises the bar for you, and makes you want to be better than you are. Be careful not to compete with them, but look for ways you can improve if you are not up to their standard.


3 Those who are focused on their goals:
Friends who are focused on their goals will also push you to be focused on yours.
It was Jim Rohn who said “you are the average of the five people you spend your most time with”.

Are you in a kind of circle that will make you grow, be stagnant or retrogress in your journey of life?
It is important you think these through carefully.

You should also have these attributes so that the right kind of people will come into your life.

Conquerors, will you look out for these 3 attributes when choosing your circle?

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Ukeme-obong Chris

I'm Ukeme-obong Chris, a lifestyle content writer and a freelance writer. In my spare time, I love reading good fictional and inspirational books.  I am currently pursuing my law degree, and I am the brain behind IConquerdaily which posts motivational and lifestyle content and also offers writing services.

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  1. Abas

    Thanks for this piece of advice. It means a lot to me. Thanks

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